6 Actions To Avoid If You Are Trying To Modify Timesharing
Timesharing is one of the most complicated issues to deal with when you are in involved in a family case. Whether you are trying to establish a timesharing schedule or are trying to modify the existing one, it is important to consider some actions that might “paint you in a good light” to the eyes of the court.
Be careful to avoid these mistakes that can sabotage your case:
1. Don’t ignore your visitation schedule. The court system pays attention to parent behavior during the custody cases.
· If you don’t exercise your visitations, then the courts may question your dedication to the children. They may inquire about why you want to modify your current timesharing if you aren’t spending any or little time with the kids.
2. Respect your ex. The court system takes confrontations and threats seriously, and always encourages the parents to foster a positive relationship and good communication standards.
· Be mindful of all of your conversations and interactions. During a custody battle, it’s important to act civilized and avoid any confrontation with your previous partner. Confrontations may range from physical to emotional harm. The courts won’t give you increase your timesharing if they think you’re dangerous either to yourself or to your children.
3. Always keep your cool. Avoid physical confrontations that can escalate and lead to negative results. Your ex can make you angry, but you must demonstrate self-control and learn how to handle the frustration without outbursts or aggression.
4. Consider postponing moving in with a new partner. You may be eager to start your new life, but moving in with a new partner can sabotage your custody battle.
· If you are presently in the middle of a divorce, moving in with a partner can be viewed negatively by the courts.
· The courts want to see parents who are dedicated to their children. If you’re involved in a new romance, they may wonder how much time you plan to spend with the kids.
5. Watch how you refer to your ex in front of others. Divorce and custody proceedings can be filled with anger, animosity, and frustration. However, it’s important to avoid criticizing your previous partner in front of others because it can backfire. They may use the criticism they hear against you, even if your criticism is justified.
· Your friends, family, and others may provide testimony about the way you treat your ex.
6. Do not skip a child support payment. Even if you’re in the middle of a custody battle and not happy about the timesharing you are exercising, you must continue to pay child support.
· You can violate multiple laws by refusing to pay child support. You may get you driver’s license suspended or even end up in jail.
· Courts prefer to see parents who are complying with the law and providing for their children. You may be angry about sending child support to your ex because of the way it’s spent. However, it’s still important to do it since it provides for your children.
· If you stop paying child support, then the courts may view this as irresponsible and disrespectful behavior. It can sabotage your entire case and legal battle.
Family cases can be complex and messy, so it’s easy to slip and fall. Learn to avoid the common mistakes that might hurt your case. Always try to act with reason and avoid letting your emotions take the best of you.